While at a funeral last weekend, the Pentecostal preacher who was delivering the sermon raised the question “Will our loved ones know us in Heaven?” His position was that he could not say or did not seem to know if we would be able to recognize our loved ones once we got to Heaven. Having not considered the question before I began to think about the question he had posed. Immediately a couple of passages from the bible came to mind that seem to answer this question.
The very first passage that comes to mind when pondering this question is Luke 16:19-31, the story of the rich man and Lazarus.
19 “There was a rich man, who was clothed in purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously every day. 20 And at his gate lay a poor man named Laz′arus, full of sores, 21 who desired to be fed with what fell from the rich man’s table; moreover the dogs came and licked his sores. 22 The poor man died and was carried by the angels to Abraham’s bosom. The rich man also died and was buried; 23 and in Hades, being in torment, he lifted up his eyes, and saw Abraham far off and Laz′arus in his bosom. 24 And he called out, ‘Father Abraham, have mercy upon me, and send Laz′arus to dip the end of his finger in water and cool my tongue; for I am in anguish in this flame.’ 25 But Abraham said, ‘Son, remember that you in your lifetime received your good things, and Laz′arus in like manner evil things; but now he is comforted here, and you are in anguish. 26 And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been fixed, in order that those who would pass from here to you may not be able, and none may cross from there to us.’ 27 And he said, ‘Then I beg you, father, to send him to my father’s house, 28 for I have five brothers, so that he may warn them, lest they also come into this place of torment.’ 29 But Abraham said, ‘They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them.’ 30 And he said, ‘No, father Abraham; but if some one goes to them from the dead, they will repent.’ 31 He said to him, ‘If they do not hear Moses and the prophets, neither will they be convinced if some one should rise from the dead.’”
In this story the rich man not only identifies Laz’arus but also Abraham, which suggest two things to me. First is the most obvious and more direct to the question we are attempting to answer, is that the rich man who has just died recognizes Laz’arus who has also just died. This seems to be clear evidence that after death we will retain our memory of our earthly life and also be able to recognize people we knew in our life in the afterlife. Secondly and perhaps less obvious is Laz’arus identifies Abraham which would suggest that not only will we be able to recognize people we knew in our past life but also anyone in Heaven. It is assumed that the rich man did not live during the time of Abraham but yet he still is able to recognize him and even know his name. I can only conclude that this is due to God sharing in his knowledge with us.
The second passage that comes to mind is Revelations 6:9-10, Johns vision of the martyr’s in Heaven.
9 When he opened the fifth seal, I saw under the altar the souls of those who had been slain for the word of God and for the witness they had borne; 10 they cried out with a loud voice, “O Sovereign Lord, holy and true, how long before thou wilt judge and avenge our blood on those who dwell upon the earth?”
In this passage John see’s the martyr’s who have died on Earth and are now in Heaven. It would seem from this passage that the Saints in Heaven are aware that God has not avenged their deaths and thus they are aware of the fates of those that martyr’d them. If the Saints in Heaven have a knowledge of those people who are not in Heaven and are on Earth then it would follow that they recognize those people and know who they are. If the saints have this knowledge of people that are not in Heaven, it is only logical they would have this knowledge of those in Heaven.
These are just two different passages that come to mind that seem to prove that we will in fact know our loved ones in Heaven. The passage I presented from Luke would even seem to go further and indicate that we will know people in Heaven that we did not know in this life. What do you think? Feel free to comment or send me an email to let me know what you think.